You know you’ve been blessed with good people in your life when they tell you stupid stories from their lives to make you feel better about yours.
She’s 21 with her 21 year old boyfriend and they fight with the words: “K whatever.”
Least I can say is… precious?
Sometimes when you want to understand something, you just can’t seem to figure out the reasons why things happen. You start to doubt yourself, desperate for answers, but no signs are given to lend you hints if you’re either doing something right or wrong to say the least. Often times when you’re too engaged in trying to comprehend why others do what they do, just minding their own is all it is, it does not occur to you.
On another note, when you hold in so much in a long measure of time, it just takes that one moment to trigger every single thing that a person has kept inside. Unheard, unknown, unspoken. With all hell breaking loose, each and every word unravels all the pain, the intricacy that was there in the beginning.
You make things complicated when it doesn’t have to be. You belittle others when you need to take a step back and see what kind of monster you are from the majority perspective. You bring people pain in relation to your wrongdoings and injustice behavior. You are so cruel and close-minded to the core. You’re blinded by the fact that you take account for all the complications that have come to pass from the get-go. Just stop. Take a look at what you’ve done.
That moment when you know you’re going to regret what you’re doing, but impulse has led you to this.
That moment.
No one has anything in common with anyone except the God that is inside of all our hearts.
We meet people on a daily basis. More often than not, you will meet people that are different than you. And occasionally, you will have the pleasure of meeting someone that share common personality traits and backgrounds with you. The problem with this is that you will mistakenly perceive this as a positive thing and will instinctively let that person more approachable to your heart. With this, you subconsciously set expectations for this person, and once you find that they don’t meet our expectations, this is when you get hurt.
Trust no one, and love everyone.
Dating doesn’t have to be hard, people are just so scared. We say things like “it’ll find me” but that’s just our excuse to stay semi-closed off and not appear bitter or afraid. The truth is, we need that romance, we all long for that connection, and the opportunity to be with somebody we don’t have to hide from. When the world is coming at you from all kinds of angles, it’s nice to have a refuge. Someone you can go to when you want life to feel “right,” even if it’s only for five minutes. There is no perfect timing: you’ll never experience enough, make enough, or know enough to be “ready,” so find somebody you can grow with. The more your fears control you, the less authentic your love will be. People can’t find and connect with a part of you that you aren’t willing to show. Opening won’t kill you. Don’t ruin a potential good thing being stuck on the bad ones from your past. Show some effort, and act like you really want to be happy. Step outside of that comfort zone, but don’t take too long. Always remember: A chance is a terrible to waste.
This is all you’ll get out of me.
I didn’t realize how much tumblr can affect my life. Yes, I said that correctly. I was having a negative day today and all it took for me to feel better was to scroll down my feed and see all the inspirational and motivational posts of everyone. Everything starting from street style, cheesy quotations, shoes, style, and especially life-relatable quotations. I need this. Thank you to all. Goodnight.
It’s been a week since my friend stole my Facebook’s password. For good reason. I have finals coming up and feel that it is the safest way to not let my grades slip. Naturally, I leaned toward occupying myself with something else that would allow me to procrastinate, and that ended up being Tumblr. Congratulations Tumblr. You are the new appointed source and cause of my procrastination. I like to tell myself that I run a blog that stands more heavily on the fashion and lifestyle categories. Therefore, it never occurred to me to browse through other blogs to find the absolutely and insanely ridiculous things that I found. To the girl that posts shit along the lines of these: 1) I wish I was pretty. 2) Why is everyone prettier than me. 3) I don’t like my body. To this girl, I must say this: shut the fuck up. You’re young, for God’s sake. There is nothing more beautiful than a young blossoming girl. If you spend more time being concerned about the way you look than what is going on in the world, then you are not going to make it further than your parents’ front door. Realize that there are people dying of hunger, people suffering from diseases, people fighting for their lives, and people who suffer mental disorders and depression. Educate yourself. Be ambitious. Find a fucking goal in life. Find role models. Figure out how they got there and affect the people around you as much as you can. Quit complaining about having a family, food slapped on the dinner table, and a computer to tell everyone that you’re ugly. I guess this is my prayer for tonight. Goodnight.
